I recently saw the website of a cohousing that I know is struggling (not mine, for a change). It sounded amazing. Been around awhile. Mentions what they are looking for in a good neighbor. But I know the truth. They aren’t doing any of that.
So, like I’ve said, go visit. Get a real vibe. Rent and live there at least a year first. It may look good on paper (or the website) but find out the truth.
Watch what they do, not what they say.