I recently saw the website of a cohousing that I know is struggling (not mine, for a change). It sounded amazing. Been around awhile. Mentions what they are looking for in a good neighbor. But I know the truth. They aren’t doing any of that.
So, like I’ve said, go visit. Get a real vibe. Rent and live there at least a year first. It may look good on paper (or the website) but find out the truth.
Watch what they do, not what they say.
Yes yes yes! Wonderful advice. Wish I’d done that.
Me too but we live and learn!