I have a few posts on resources. Here are some specific places to look for professionals to help you build you project
https://www.cohousing.org/directory/wpbdp_category/pro/
Step by step how most cohos are done:
https://www.cohousing.org/create-cohousing/create-it/
some definitions, thanks to the cohousing listserv folks who answered my question – what is a developer and consultant.
developers invest their own capital in projects
development consultanta provide services to groups for a
fee and do not invest any of their own capital in the project.
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